* Do you have trust in one another?
* Do you respect each other?
* Do you support each other’s interests and efforts?
* Are you honest and open with each other?
* Are you able to maintain your individual identity?
* Do you talk about your feelings, hopes, fears, and dreams?
* Do you feel and express fondness and affection?
* Is there equality and fairness in your relationship?
* Can you speak your mind, change your mind, and question the world around you?
* Can you follow your passions and be the real you?
* Do you feel safe?